Thursday, September 19, 2013

Tyler at the Navy Yard


To those of you who heard or read about our son Tyler’s involvement in last Monday’s Navy Yard shooting – thank you so much for your concern and prayers.  As we’re rudely reminded once again of the fragility of life, we’re grateful that he’s alive and well.
Tyler works on the 3rd floor of Building 197.  He arrived about 8 am and was just emerging from the men’s room when he heard the sound of gunshots and the deafening fire alarm.  He was immediately directed into the stairwell just as the shooter fired bullets down the corridor he’d just left. When he got outside there was a still-locked gate, and people began to panic.  Some were able to scale the 9-foot wall, but many more simply couldn’t.  One very large woman from Tyler’s office began to panic because she knew she wouldn’t get over that height.  But Tyler and two other guys came back and reassured her. “Relax, we’ll get you over,” and they began lifting her, then other people, up to the top of the wall.  Others began to lower people down to the other side.  Before someone finally opened the gate to allow everyone to get out, they’d helped about 15 people over the Navy Yard wall.

Tyler texted us from Nationals Stadium before we knew anything about the event. We never had to worry for his personal safety. But we, like you, stayed riveted to the TV for hours that day and grieved over the horrible sense of “Here we go again” and the tragic loss of life.  And while this again confronts us with the need for some type of gun control, suffice it to say that simple background checks – the type Congress and the NRA squashed earlier this year – would have saved a lot of lives on Monday. Why is that simple step so hard??
Bev and I know that the horror of Monday’s event touched many lives a lot closer than ours.  But knowing that Tyler was in Ashland the day the DC snipers were there; that he was at Virginia Tech in the spring of 2007; and now being in Building 197 – and remembering Garrett was in Japan during their earthquake / tsunami / nuclear crisis – has reminded us of the unique challenges of parenting in the 21st century!  How grateful we are we don’t have to face those issues alone.

I remembered Psalm 90 that says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may get a heart of wisdom.” Bev remembered the prayer, “We know not what a day will bring forth, only that the hour for serving you is always present.” It’s hard to be so frequently reminded of the fragility of life.  But maybe that’s exactly what we need.  Not the terror of violent death, but the reminder that life is short and uncertain and immeasurably precious.

We don’t need an excuse to hug our loved ones tighter.  Thank God for life!  And pray for one another.

Pastor Larry